I dedicate this post to all my teacher friends. My mama was an English teacher. So was my mother-in-law. My old Chemistry teacher saved my academic life. When I met him, I was only interested in guitars, girls, and pizzas, and he set me on fire to learn. I’d never been a Doc without him.
I’ve always had a weak spot for teachers. From what I can tell, they deal with an enormous amount of foolishness for the privilege to guide one student out of the desert. I don’t understand all they have to do, but I respect it. I guess it is why folks like the English Professor and mrschili became blog pals right from the get-go.
In spite of a mischievous youth, all my old teachers have forgiven me, and now all of them are my patients. I try hard to take good care of everyone, but I have to admit they are extra special.
By day two of the Chattanooga Southern Writer’s Conference, I had begun to learn the ropes. I played my mandolin outside but then put it away for the conference. A group of famous writers stood at the front door of the Tyvoli.
“Are you a writer?” one asked.
“I trying but I’m still a hack. I’m really a Doctor.”
“What kind of Doctor?”
“Country Doctor. You know, one of those in the trenches blue collar working class Docs.”
“Well, I trust you are not a hack doctor.” He started to smile, and wiped it away with the back of his hand.
“Oh, no sir. I’m an O.K. Doc, but I still pray hard about that gig. I have all kind of respect for what can go wrong.”
“What you carrying?” another asked.
“Mandolin. Do you play?”
“Guitar.”
“If you get in a jam give me a call. I love to play.” I handed him a card.
I tossed my mandolin case over my shoulder, and walked over to Ms. Dorothy’s station.
“Hey Ms. Dorothy, I cut off my cell phone.”
“Ssh.” She placed one finger over her lips. “Come here.” She motioned for me to stop.
“What is it?”
“Do you recognize that man over there?”
I looked at my program. “Heck, that’s Sam Pickering.”
“Well, aren’t you gonna speak to him?”
“Gee, I don’t know. He’s famous isn’t he?”
“He’s a nice man. Go get him to sign that book you bought.”
“O.K. Thanks.”
“And don’t be too loud. He’s taught English for years at University of Connecticut. I just adore him.”
Poor Sam. I could empathize. As a Doc, I have all kinda women chasing me. They all want to know if I am taking new Medicare patients. Sam’s groupies were middle aged Doctors and Aunt Bee types. At least we had something in common.
“Dr. Pickering, would would sign my book?”
“Sure. Are you enjoying the conference?”
“Yes sir. I told ’em outside I was a hack, but I am having fun, and I’m learning.”
He signed my copy. “Keep on writing. Don’t worry. We’re all hacks.”
“Maybe so, sir. I’ve got a notion I am a whole lot more of one than you are, but bless you.”
Pickering is an intellectual man. After nineteen books, my guess is he has seen it all twice; made money and been ripped off, taught English and spun yarns, been famous and could care less if he’s discovered or not.
Even so, he took several minutes to hear of my dreams and write some good luck wishes for me inside the cover of his book. It took me a while to figure out exactly what it was about the man I connected with, as our backgrounds are quite different.
After I read his book I understood. My hope is my doctor story is as honest as his book ‘Letters to a Teacher.’ It is a straight-up account of what it is like to try be a teacher and a decent human being. (And both at the same time)
Dr. Pickering treated his students with dignity and respect. He was honest enough to admit when he was a young single teacher the girl in the front row was a knockout, but wise enough to ignore his emotions. He told of the time he gave a smart-ass but true answer to a dumb question that cost him a job opportunity as a college President. The guy has written a shelf of books and University Press essays, but he seems unimpressed with himself; the kind of fellow who’d rather mulch his leaves than pontificate about grammar rules.
He reminded me of Dr. Danny Fulks. Dr. Fulks dropped all the pretenses and formalities long ago and made his best effort to communicate with and teach young people. Sam Pickering seems to have done the same.
He’s a hard cat to find. As far as I can tell he doesn’t have a web site or a FaceBook page. A trip to MySpace only netted me a grunge rocker named Sam Pickering who had 17 friends.
On the cover of his book is a quote from ‘Publishers Weekly.’ “Pickering’s odd timelessness- his ideas seem simultaneously old-fashioned and up to date….” I can only hope they might say something like that about old Doc Bibey some day. I expect Dr. Pickering would say not to hold your breath. Often you are dead before anyone pays much attention to you. That’s O.K. I can deal with honest.
Before I went in for the day, I went back to speak to Dorothy.
“Psst. Ms. Dorothy. I appreciate the tip. Yeah, he was real. Me ‘n Marfar are going out to Signal Mountain tonight to play. You want to come?”
“Oh my. Dr. Bibey. I am most flattered, but no, I have another obligation.” She leaned over and whispered. “Dr. Pickering is giving a private reading at the Library tonight and I must attend.”
“Yes, m’am. Y’all have fun.”
I took up guitar years ago in hopes of meeting girls. That worked out good with Ms. Marfar, and I’m long since spoken for, but Ms. Dorothy confirmed what I have long suspected. It ain’t the guitar pickers but the writers who get all the girls.
Hmm. Maybe Dr. Pickering could use it as a motivational tool with his young male students. At that age they all suffer from testosterone poisoning and it might be the only thing that gets their attention.
Dr. B
“Letters to a Teacher” Author: Dr. Sam Pickering
ISBN 0-8021-4227-3
Grove Press, New York